September 10 - Life Log #010

Hello, Sorry it has been quite awhile since I last posted, Been rather busy with a lot of things here and there,
But I guess now I actually have something interesting to write about and I guess it's also a question for you guys out there and girls that is, If some of you don't take the word 'guys' as a general word used for a group of people,

Have any of you guys got that feeling where you know you moved on from your past relationship, but when that girl tells you that they have a new boyfriend you feel a strange hit making you feel like shit. Cause damn that's how I feel now. It would be nice to really just rant about it on her, But while writing this I guess it's just me being over dramatic.

So there has been a couple emails and One really interested me and She said it was OK if I talked about it here on Life Logs,Your a really cool person and I hope we can stop by for another coffee when your free, As per usual though no name would be mentioned,

The thing about problems we as individuals have, It should never be compared with anyone elses, Cause we don't experience the same situations as everyone else do, Though something that would or could make us feel a little bit happier is too remember that someone is experiencing something more serious then the problems we face.

So for this case, Lets give her a little name to make it clear, So her name is let's say 'Clara'.
So Clara was abandoned by her dad, and Clara and her mom has been struggling to survive for quite awhile, Her parents were really young when her mom got pregnant with her and He 'The Father' couldn't pull through with the responsibility of having a child. So he took off, When Clara was about 6, She started to really feel the impact of not having a father figure around, The usual feeling sad seeing others being happy as a family, It wasn't till she was 12 when another Man came into Rachel's Life, and for the first time Clara was overjoyed, She finally had a father. To us this may not seem like such a big thing but for 12 year old Clara this was the world to her, They now own a little Cafe, that's doing ok with their usual customers and such. They aren't the perfect family like any other, But to Clara it was a change where everything was finally looking up, Though it seems the reason she contacted askdjk, Was because she had a little trust issue when she broke up with her previous long term relationship, Bloody Cheaters huh,

 After hearing her story which sorry Clara but was actually quite irrelevant from your problem but also relevant in a sense of seeing that she wanted a guy that was like her father, After some talking and a meetup, Was finally able to solve her little trust problem, She went through a lot in her life but like I told her If its anything to make you feel slightly better, Know that your problem is considered small to the problems others are facing, Though its a really crappy thing to say, We should do our best to keep our petty problems petty. And try to go on with life doing our best to keep our chins up,

So this story has been extremely short formed with a lot of info not shown, and I feel kinda crappy too type everything out and actually check it, So the story has probably been put here and there, Though don't worry too much, Ill be back and happy soon enough :).

Have a nice one everyone, Thanks for reading.

AskDjk13@gmail.com - Contact if you ever need someone to talk to, or someone to complain too & etc. Please give it at least a day to get a reply.

August 25th - Life Log #009 - How was your weekend ?

How was your weekend?
Mine was going to be uneventful but things went to a little unexpected turn and it became quite a day,

So it was just the recent Saturday 23rd August,  Roosevelt's friend was visiting from England and so they decided to have a day out at KLCC so having to accompany my Sister by train, I called up some friends to meet up and someone I haven't seen in 6 months dropped by,

A video of Saturday's events will be posted soon after I've finished editing it.
So keep an eye out for that,

Finally being able to see her really helped me moved past it, I guess the feeling of still being able to be friends and laugh and argue the way we do really settled everything for me, Overall a really fun day, So to find out a little more of what happened stay tuned for the video :P

August 20th - Life Log #008 and Update to Anime Review

Hello again readers,

Another usual day, Roosevelt and I planning to man a booth for next year's Animangaki, also wondering if Comic Fiesta would be something to booth for, Roosevelt will be doing some designs for the things we are selling ranging from Badge Pins, Digital Art Printouts and little Laminated KeyChains,

In other news, Sorry for the late posts for Anime Reviews, have been rather busy lately and havent been able to get the time to actually write the reviews,

So well that's the post for today, Have a nice one.

August 15th - Life Log #007

Last time I was complaining about the August 14th being something,

Then I realize my anniversary wasn't the 14th it was the 18th the upcoming Monday,
The 14th was the last time I saw her February 14th Valentines day we broke up 4 months after that,
We haven't seen each other for quite awhile now hmm,

AskDjk@gmail.com is open to emails in need of advice so feel free to send an email if you just need someone to listen to you about your problems and if you want advice on situations, Some emails may be replied on Life Log as well anonymously of coarse.

While were on that one issue that was sent to me, a simple reply of this,
Though one person's life may just be a drop in a bucket, Every drop of water leaves ripples - Kuu
: P .

The line comes from a visual novel by SakeVisual called "Ripples" ,
Feel Free to check it out,
http://www.sakevisual.com/ripples.html


Well that's my post for the day, Hope everyone out there has a nice day or good evening,

August 13th - Life Log #006

Hello Readers, It has been about 5 days since my last post and I guess it's time for a little Life Log update,

Animagaki was a fun event and I personally really enjoyed myself though feeling disappointed that not many people actually knew who Delsin Rowe was which I guess was to be expected :/

Well in the recent days I haven't exactly felt very happy as tomorrow would be 2nd Year Anniversary, well at least it should have been if we hadn't broken up last month. I would like to say I've moved on and I know I would be ready too, but it's a shame that it had to end, especially with the way it ended, Sad and Angry,
From a so called "Overly Attached" couple to "Slightly Less than Friends". It wasn't the same way which ended my previous relationship which was mutual as we ended up Good Friends afterwards who were able to laugh about our overly extend relationship. This time it was different, This time it was able to hit me so hard I didn't think I would have been phased by it, Though with the reminders of her everywhere it wears me out. Though after all the thought I put into it I realized I wasn't sad that we broken up but rather sad that our friendship was severed. I love you Naoi Kanamori and I may always will, Hope you find someone that you deserve.

4th August 2014 - Life Log #005

Hello there, Another Life Log today,

Had quite a tiring weekend.
On Saturday had a little farewell party for one of my dad's friend's friend,  We had a long game of basketball it's been a really long time since I actually played basketball but was quite surprised to still be able to shoot my 3 pointers, Though still really bad at dribbling.

The day after on Sunday we weren't able to get up for the morning mass at church and Roosevelt missed her Confirmation Class which I think she was rather happy to miss,

So that has been my weekend, how was yours, Have a nice day/evening.

15th July 2014 - Life Log #003

Good Morning, Afternoon or Evening respectively to what time it is where you are right now,

So today has been a usual day at I was thinking of a topic to write about, Was always wondering whether to start with something simple or complicated.

So today's topic was going to be Unconditional Love. 

A per definition unconditional love is love in its purest form, 

Where a person loves another person without conditions attached.

It's easy to say that you want to love a person unconditionally but how easy is it to actually do? 

Well in my situation it's with the girl I love right now, 

We have been dating for almost 2 years since August 20th 2012 and we ended June 21st,

I loved her a lot and I really did we were really close we seemed like that overly attached couple who could talk about anything and living life together seemed so possible, Thought no matter how sweet the relationship may have been it had its bitter end. And after awhile we managed to stay friends. Now this is where I could say I unconditionally love her, I love this girl and I really do but it wouldn't matter if she loved me back or not and I wish that she would live a happy life,

But is it unconditional love, it would seem so, Could it be that I'm being the friend who helps her whenever he can and hope she's happy with whoever she's with. Or would it be me thinking and hoping that one day she would fall for me again. See now that defeats the whole unconditional love meaning. 

I would like to say I have moved on and I could live on looking for someone else, but have you ever felt that feeling where it wouldn't be the same loving someone else, no matter how perfect that other person may be, the feeling that it wouldn't be the same because of all those memories you shared with your ex, Well that's just the kind of person I am I guess, the guy who only feel he should date someone he could see himself marrying one day. Otherwise I could see myself becoming that guy who has commitment problems, 

For me this has been my second relationship with someone and it has also been my second long term relationship as my previous relationship also lasted for two years, 

We love someone as the person they are, we learn to love their imperfection even if we don't realise it, and we are weakest when we make decisions out of emotions, To the girl I love and still love, I will wait for the day you fall in love with me before I say it again...

Well :P sorry for the messy and confusing post today, if I have the time I may have to look through this post and probably redraft it, well have a nice day or evening, Feel free to leave a comment, feel free to leave a comment asking for advice, if you want your comment to be kept private please include that in your comment, 

30th July 2014 - Life Log #004

Hello Readers, Sorry for the rather late post, but it has been quite a tiring past few days,

Sunday was a beach day, So had to wake up at 5:30 in the morning, had some breakfast and it was my turn to drive on the way there. Probably an hour and a half drive actually feeling quite used to being behind the wheel. In Malaysia Port Dickson is that Beach where the only reason you go there is because its the closest one. Otherwise you would be rather disappointed by it. If your a tourist planning on enjoying the beaches in Malaysia I would definitely recommend Redang Island before any other though apparently there is a side of the island with bad beaches so be sure to find out where your heading.

After a long day on the beach torturing ourselves with sea water splashing in our eyes, Playing Beach Football and eating BBQ. Getting home feeling really tired out and out of all the places to get sunburned it had to be the shoulders.

Yesterday was another interesting day with a last minute day trip to Genting Highlands, we visited the Strawberry Farm and the nearby Chin Swee Temple. It was a rather interesting day with a lot to see, Though sadly their honey at the bee farm in Genting was quite expensive to the pure honey you can get in Cameron Highlands. The Strawberry Farm really loved putting their Strawberries in everything they have from anything from Strawberry Jam, Strawberry Concentrate, Strawberry Tea & Coffee, Strawberry Water and even Strawberry Chicken,

Chin Swee Temple is quite a place to visit for the path of enlightenment walking through all the chambers of hell. An interesting walk in which when we just finished it started to rain so thanks to that perfect timing we were able to get out of it fine. Though with being in the highlands the fog and rain was never a great mix and visibility was so low that it left us stranded in the hotel lobby for awhile till the skies clear at least clear enough to drive safely. After we had some late lunch/early dinner. And the day ends parting ways.

13th July 2014 - Life Log #002

Yesterday was quite the interesting day, I only expect it to be just the three if us but it ended up being an 11 people group with some past classmates from school, A lot of walking and talking it was quite fun catching up with everyone,

As the group started to diminish the small group of ours were a little more close knit and more interesting conversation sparked, talks about politics, government, the future, development, and so much more.

It was a rather great day, came home at about 11:30pm so that's why this post is the day after. 

Today was another usual Sunday for me I guess, going to mass in the morning and then heading over to Sunway Pyramid for lunch at Ichiban Ramen and its safe to say their portions has increased and the quality of food is rather good for their fair pricing. 

Also future life logs are open to questions looking for advice on any situation, so feel free to leave a comment, If you want your comment to be kept private make sure to add that to your comment and ill make sure not to approve it to public. Have a nice day blog readers. :) 

11th July 2014 - Life Log #001

Another usual day at home again, Meeting up tomorrow with friends I've haven't seen for quite a long time, metting up at KLCC park, hopefully it will be a great day.

Bon Odori has been confirmed 20th September so I'm quite excited for that even if its 2 months away .
Bon Odori is a Japanese Festival and it's rather fun attending, with good Japanese Food, Drinks and Dancing. Truly would be a night to remember,

Well I guess that's the update of the day, Be back tomorrow