Wednesday, September 10, 2014

September 10 - Life Log #010

Hello, Sorry it has been quite awhile since I last posted, Been rather busy with a lot of things here and there,
But I guess now I actually have something interesting to write about and I guess it's also a question for you guys out there and girls that is, If some of you don't take the word 'guys' as a general word used for a group of people,

Have any of you guys got that feeling where you know you moved on from your past relationship, but when that girl tells you that they have a new boyfriend you feel a strange hit making you feel like shit. Cause damn that's how I feel now. It would be nice to really just rant about it on her, But while writing this I guess it's just me being over dramatic.

So there has been a couple emails and One really interested me and She said it was OK if I talked about it here on Life Logs,Your a really cool person and I hope we can stop by for another coffee when your free, As per usual though no name would be mentioned,

The thing about problems we as individuals have, It should never be compared with anyone elses, Cause we don't experience the same situations as everyone else do, Though something that would or could make us feel a little bit happier is too remember that someone is experiencing something more serious then the problems we face.

So for this case, Lets give her a little name to make it clear, So her name is let's say 'Clara'.
So Clara was abandoned by her dad, and Clara and her mom has been struggling to survive for quite awhile, Her parents were really young when her mom got pregnant with her and He 'The Father' couldn't pull through with the responsibility of having a child. So he took off, When Clara was about 6, She started to really feel the impact of not having a father figure around, The usual feeling sad seeing others being happy as a family, It wasn't till she was 12 when another Man came into Rachel's Life, and for the first time Clara was overjoyed, She finally had a father. To us this may not seem like such a big thing but for 12 year old Clara this was the world to her, They now own a little Cafe, that's doing ok with their usual customers and such. They aren't the perfect family like any other, But to Clara it was a change where everything was finally looking up, Though it seems the reason she contacted askdjk, Was because she had a little trust issue when she broke up with her previous long term relationship, Bloody Cheaters huh,

 After hearing her story which sorry Clara but was actually quite irrelevant from your problem but also relevant in a sense of seeing that she wanted a guy that was like her father, After some talking and a meetup, Was finally able to solve her little trust problem, She went through a lot in her life but like I told her If its anything to make you feel slightly better, Know that your problem is considered small to the problems others are facing, Though its a really crappy thing to say, We should do our best to keep our petty problems petty. And try to go on with life doing our best to keep our chins up,

So this story has been extremely short formed with a lot of info not shown, and I feel kinda crappy too type everything out and actually check it, So the story has probably been put here and there, Though don't worry too much, Ill be back and happy soon enough :).

Have a nice one everyone, Thanks for reading.

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